Does the tantalizing idea of a threesome get you all hard and bothered? Have you secretly been curious about exploring the art of rorole-playing? It seems to be a lot easier to keep your Sexual fantasies to yourself, instead of sharing them with your partner, but where the hell is the fun in that? In 2025 we should be much more open and bold about our desires, wants and needs. 

If your boyfriend or girlfriend is in the dark, odds are your fantasies will never be fulfilled! Isn't it crazy that no matter how much you trust them or how long you've been together—just the thought of bringing this up in conversation can leave you feeling weird and embarrassed. You begin doubting yourself and thinking things such as, "What if they judgeyme?" "Will my desired fantasy be turned down, and leave them offended?"

While there may be shame surrounding some of your deepest desires, hiding them from your partner may do more harm than good. There is no reason you shouldn't be able to be open and honest with your spouse. That’s why I highly recommend finding a way to communicate these fantasies to your partner in a way that doesn't coerce them or pressure them, but rather opens up an honest exchange. Even if they don't agree with what your desires are—you still deserve to be heard. There's no reason to hold back fellas.

RELATED: Common Female Fantasies

According to a recent survey, about 6 in 10 people admit they haven’t shared their sexual fantasies with their partner. Thats craaaazzzzy! The only way you could ever know if your fantasy or fantasies are achievable, is by discussing them—im not talking about discussing them in your head. You have to feel comfortable telling your partner becsuse people who share their fantasies are nearly 10% percent more likely to report being very satisfied with their sex life.

Men often hate being rejected so they rather not gamble with fantasy topic. Especially if you have a "crazy girlfriend." Jess O’Reilly, the host of the Sex With Dr. Jess podcast, says many people don’t talk about their fantasies in order to avoid rejection—by reading the beginning of this paragraph you can tell i agree. There's something that’s ingrained in our survival instincts out of a need to belong.

However, I know that divulging your desires, no matter how vulnerable and scary it may feel, can help your partner better understand how to get you in the mood, turn you on, or heighten your pleasure. This will  keep sex exciting as hell in the long run. Here are the most common fantasies out there, along with tips on how to share them with your partner.

1. THREESOMES

The Sex and Psychology, surveyed more than 4,000 people who were all Americans, about their sexual desires and attitudes, the number one fantasy that came up was threesomes or some form of group sex. In fact, he found that almost everyone, both male and female, had toyed with this idea in their mind at some point.

There was also a revelation  that women were more likely than men to fantasize about same-sex experiences. Unsurprisingly, a 2014 study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine revealed that straight men are more likely to fantasize about sex with two women, and also tend to want a more active role rather than a passive role during group sex. Some men may want to watch their partner have sex with another man without participating (known as “cuckolding”).

But there was another survey thar combatted this one because they said men desired Same-Sex Experiences: Some men may fantasize about sexual encounters with other men, regardless of their sexual orientation. This can stem from curiosity, the allure of taboo, or the desire to explore different aspects of their sexuality.

the appeal for threesomes seems to be rooted in several desires:

1. The desire to be desired by multiple partners and relish in that power
2. The desire to be physically overwhelmed (having four hands touching you or two mouths kissing you)
3. The desire to emulate what you see in porn

Threesomes aren’t for every couple, and you’ll need to have a solid foundation of trust and respect, before you bring somebody else into your bed. This fantasy can trigger alot of insecurities and low self-worth for some — your partner may wonder if they’re not enough to sexually please you, or worry that having sex with someone else might open up doors for cheating or wanting to constantly have threesomes.

Pro Tip: before you have the discussion with your partner.

Ask yourself these questions

• Why do you want to have a threesome?

• What are the benefits you expect to derive — personally, relationally, sexually, practically, physically, emotionally, spiritually?

• What are the risks?” she explains. “Make space for getting beyond yes and no and you’ll have more meaningful and fruitful conversations

2. Role play games

Men love role playing. It’s like getting to sleep with different women in different scenarios. If a guy’s girl wont get into playing a teacher or an flight attendant, all he has to do is imagine a sexual fantasy he can role play in his head. Trust me if you're not doing it he's definitely still thinking or fantasizing about it. If you’re wondering what men like in bed, bring out your nurse or cheerleader costume and watch the sheets rise in the middle faster than you can say boing.. BOIiinnnggg!

The truth of the matter is men love women who want to experiment and every man loves to role play. The ones who say they don’t, either had their mate dressed up like their perverted physical instructor, or haven’t experienced it. So guy if you've yet to experience a good role playing scene with your male or female partner it's time to get into it! It's 2025!

3. Women who are off-limits

If we’re talking about the biggest male sexual fantasies, it’s women who are off-limits. Men love what they can’t have. But they still try. It's some steamy and daring about it. This is why most women call men "cheaters," "hoes," and "assholes— you know your name! 🤣

We don’t know why, but men find the thought of hooking up with a woman who is off-limits extremely attractive and arousing. 

Have you ever wondered why why men are drawn to things or people deemed "off-limits?" Or why it's seem so irresistible? This intriguing psychological phenomenon is explored in depth in this article on Yahoo Entertainment. From understanding human attraction to the allure of the forbidden, the article dives into the reasons why boundaries and restrictions often make something more desirable. You'll have to check it out for yourself.

4. Bondage

Men imagine tying up their partner and making love to them. Which phycology and Google can say what they want about the reasons Men fantasize about bondage rather tying up someone or being tied up. It's because men have the "Rape Gene". Men love the thought of submission, punishment, and sexual gratification. It deeper rooted then all the information on Google which covers up the real reason most people desire what they desire.

5. BDSM

It seems more than half men like it rough. The survey revealed that 65 per cent of participants fantasize about being on the receiving end of pain, like spanking, biting, and dripping hot wax. Women had “slightly more frequent” desires of giving up control to a man. But men love to dominate and control and this will get a man's dick hard quicker then anything they can think of. Simply submit to his every desire and see what happens.

Related Topics:  "Exploring the Dark Side of the Male Psyche: Rape & Aggression", 

Psychology behind BDSM

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6. Sex with a stranger

is a more masculine tendency to indulge in casual sex.  It's definitely a guy thing, so it is not surprising that sex with a stranger is one of the many sexual fantasies of men. Studies show that most men fantasize about women who are not known to them on a personal level. They always find women attractive and stay ready to pounce at the first opportunity—any given time and any  place.

It is no wonder that when they meet a woman for the first time, their eyes linger on their more feminine body parts. Is her waist small? Are her hips wide? Are her breasts big enough for his taste? Are her thigh thick? sl If all the answers are to his liking, then a woman is sure in for the taking...the smell of raw flesh and the unknown pleasure are enough to entice his senses... Men can smell a woman coming a mile away.

In conclusion: your fantasies are valid!

it is important to acknowledge that men harbor a multitude of fantasies, and what we often discuss or recognize is merely scratching the surface—these are just the tip of the iceberg. Men, it's essential to embrace your innate masculine strength and delve into the depths of your sexuality and personal fantasies. Exploring these aspects of yourself is not only natural but also a vital part of understanding who you are and what you truly desire. Remember, there is absolutely nothing wrong with your desires or fantasies; they are a fundamental part of your human experience.

Society sometimes places undue pressure on men to conform to certain norms and expectations, which can lead to feelings of guilt or shame about one's fantasies. However, it is important to break free from these constraints and recognize that your desires are valid. This journey of exploration can lead to greater personal fulfillment and self awareness.

Furthermore, embracing your fantasies should be done with a sense of responsibility and respect towards others. Understanding boundaries and consent is crucial as you navigate these personal explorations. By doing so, you not only ensure that your journey is respectful and enjoyable but also create space for open communication and deeper connections with others.

Related Topic: 10 Sexual Fantasies Men Have That They Never Tell Their Girlfriends 

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